Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Personal needs, expectation from partner/friends and relationships go in a
cycle. The way to keep it strong is to realise that there is a limit to
expecting satisfaction of personal needs from a relationship.


According to the definition in FOI, risk is the probability that the actual realised return on that investment will be less than the expected rate of return; the underlying risk of relationship is the probability that all the promises will not be fulfilled.

Change, so many things have changed in less than a month - triple date to double date, double date to just a date.

I lost a friend I never thought I would care as much to God; outing will no longer be the same when another couple broke up.

Lonely, who is not lonely. Sometimes, it seems to me that the louder you laugh and the wilder you are, the lonelier you are. At least that happens to me at times. Loneliness doesn't happen merely because we have no friends, but because we are unsure about who our friends are.

I believe friendship and relationship are transient. I believe it is a myth that some people are meant for each other and they make a picture like puzzle when put together. I believe in give-and-take in order to draw a picture that satisfy all parties.

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